Hello!! Get ready for another dose of life advice cuz this one's a doozy!! Today's topic: Young love. I think we all know what it felt like during our very first major crush. The butterflies in your stomach. The fluttering heart whenever he/she walks by. The sudden inability to talk to them and the stuttering. Believe me, I DEFINITELY know what you went through. I've been there and I am currently visiting that area for a second time. Now the question we crushers always ask, "Does he/she like me back?". Well no one can tell you for sure. So here's my solution. Just go over to the crushee and find out! I'm not saying go and blurt out "I like you!! Do you like me??!!". No. That would make you look like a stalker. I'm saying that you should find out with stealth. You know what I'm talking about. Go and TALK to your crush. What have you got to lose? Besides they're just another person. Another human being you happen to act differently towards. But whatever you do, DO NOT AVOID TOUR CRUSH!! Because this will make them think that you don't like them and they're chances of them being interested in you will gradually get smaller and smaller. So my advice to you would be: Be straightforward, but not creepy. Be honest, but not a chatter box about your entire personal life. Give them little hints like, show interest in what they like, compliment them, notice them (as in notice any difference in them), etc. Here's one warning I would really appreciate if you listened to: DO NOT LIE TO THEM UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES!!! If you lie then that will give them the impression that you don't trust them enough to tell them who you really are. So my point is, if you wanna get close to your crush, then start by being friends with them and then gradually give them a few pointers towards your true feelings. Oh and if you wanna involve someone, choose ONLY your best friend as your wing man/woman. If you let other people into this matter there could be problems (and by problems I mean if one of those people happens to like your crush too). But the most important piece of advice I would like to give you is to never ever EVER let a guy/girl come in between your friendship with anyone. Friends aren't always around so don't take risks on losing them. So, I hope you enjoyed and learned from today's dose. Would love to see some comments so don't be shy! I can take the criticism. Hue Mann, over and out!!! ;)
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