Hello and welcome to another dose of life advice, which is the first I've done after going public with my identity. Today's topic is relationship advice for guys. And what better way to get it than from a girl right? So, the first question on guys' minds is "Does she like me?". Well sometimes you can tell from body language and the pitch of her tone while talking to you, if you wanna get technical with it. For example her pitch would be higher than normal around you, she would be laughing at all your jokes, sometimes even staring or glancing at you from a distance, she would always be making eye contact with you, the occasional touching on the hand/forearm/shoulder (which goes both ways for guys AND girls). But if you're anything like me and you COMPLETELY suck at reading the signals, then there is always the bold move of just asking her out. Before you even get into a relationship, you should first be her friend in order for her to let you get to know her. Girls like to take things one step at a time, but each girl has her own pace. It all depends on her reactions towards your advances. Now once you're in a relationship with that said girl, don't stop doing the things you did to get her. Show her how happy you are with her. Remember the little things to show her how much you care. Like remember her favorite flower or her favorite band. Or even, if you wanna be a bit more romantic, incorporate those things into an anniversary of the day you first met. Remind her how much you love her and she will repay you in however way she can. So I've talked about the rosy lovey dovey stuff, now on to the negative stuff. If your crush hints to you or even just bluntly tells you that she doesn't like you, don't give up. There are lots of girls who dream of finding someone like you. You just haven't found her yet. And there is nothing wrong with being single. The trick is to just stop looking. Now when you're in a relationship, if your girlfriend changes you for the worst, it shouldn't continue. If she prevents you from seeing your friends, it shouldn't continue, because your friends were there before her, and you can never guarantee that they will always be there. So there is no sense in losing your friends over a girl. "Pals before gals," goes all the way, boys. And last but not least, don't put your life on hold for a girl. If she can't accept that you still had a life before you met her and that you still want to keep pursuing your dreams and aspirations, if she can't support you every step of the way, then you two shouldn't be together. So, what I'm saying is don't give up on love, but also don't give up on life for love. Well I hope this dose was helpful to my male readers. Keep the views comin' and don't be shy to comment and ask me for topics or just normal questions. Hue Mann, over and out!! ;)
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