Hello and welcome to another dose of life advice from me!! I'm sorry I'm late I know it was supposed to be yesterday but I was busy today and lost track of time. I wrote this after midnight so I hope its not too bad. Anyways, today's topic if you couldn't guess from the title is socialisation. Mingling, if you will. It is actually important to go out and get to know people every now and then. Of course having time to yourself is essential, but you do need alone time, not forever alone. So, when you're invited to an outing, I'd suggest that, if you're not too busy, go out for a couple of hours and mingle. Who knows? You may well find people with common interests, or maybe even meet that special someone. Now don't take it as a sure thing from me. I'm saying go out and experience new people, but don't over do it. Everything in moderation. Tend to your responsibilities first, whatever they may be, and then go out and have some fun. Now on to the social skills, I assume some of you aren't exactly social butterflies. To be honest, neither am I. I always need someone to either approach me, or a common friend to introduce us. So, my advice to avoid awkward situations, is to go to social gatherings where you know someone you are well acquainted with will be. And if you see them talking to someone else, don't be shy and leave them alone, but also don't be rude and just barge into the conversation. Just go up and say hi then courteously say you'll let them finish their conversation and come back. Then it will be their choice to invite you into the conversation or not. Now, after you've passed this stage, just be yourself. And by no means necessary do you need to make up anything about yourself, because you never want to start a relationship of any sort with a lie, you'll just fall into a bigger spiral of lies which will eventually spin out of your control. Be honest, but no too much. Keep it interesting by keeping it a bit mysterious. Also, ask the person lots of questions about themselves so you seem interested in return, which will flatter the person and keep the conversation going. So, now that you know how to be mingle-ready, go out there and be the best social butterfly you can be! Just always remember to be yourself, because you have everything to be proud of, since there is only one you that exists and there will be no one youer than you! So, that's all for today! Sorry again for my tardiness on this advice column, hopefully it won't happen too frequently. Before I go I just want to say...THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK ALL OF YOU SO MUCH!!!! We broke 400 viewers!!! You cannot imagine how happy this makes me! Seriously though, thank you guys so much. You all are the reason I keep blogging. Ok, with the sappiness out of the way, don't forget next Wednesday is review day! If you want me to review something specific, ask me on my twitter handle @HueMann1996, leave a comment on this post, or a note on my tumblr post on huemann1996.tumblr.com or if you have any questions or comments or even future topics for next Sunday or Friday. Alright, see you guys on Wednesday! Hue Mann, over and out!! ;)
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